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With
the help of family and friends I established the 2 BigHearts
Foundation in the summer of 2004 to increase awareness
of the issue of heart disease in women, and to give to
those whose lives have been impacted by heart disease
effecting a woman.
This
is a very important mission for me, one borne from personal
tragedy. One of the principal reasons I started the
Foundation was to enlighten others as to the profound
ramifications of heart disease in women. I want to do
whatever I can to ensure that other families will not
have to endure the shock, pain and grief that I felt
- and that my family experienced - when my beloved wife
and her sister died suddenly and virtually simultaneously
as a direct result of undiagnosed heart disease. Their
deaths were avoidable, and need not have happened, if
only we had known about their heart conditions.
The
story is tragic for many reasons, not the least of which
because this did not have to happen. It began on Friday,
June 18, 2004, when we received a call from Lexington,
Kentucky. Sally Czechanski, my wife Gigi's beloved sister,
had suffered a serious cardiac event while on a business
trip to the area. Sally was in critical condition, and
her prognosis was grave. Sally was 49 years old.
Shocked,
saddened and wanting to be with her adoring sister and
best friend, Gigi immediately arranged to be at Sally's
side at St. Joseph's Hospital in Lexington. She flew
to Lexington within hours to be with Sally. Then,
shortly after arriving, the unfathomable happened: Gigi
suffered an equally serious cardiac event, and was rushed
to the emergency room for treatment. Her condition was
grave, and she was taken to critical care, ironically,
alongside her beloved sister, Sally. Gigi was 44 years
old.
Gigi
and Sally remained in grave condition, both suffering
from the exact same condition. Ultimately, the agonizing
decision had to be made to remove them from life support.
There was, we were assured, no conceivable way these
two beautiful people would recover from such devastating
cardiac trauma. With hope lost, our family said a
final
goodbye to Sally and Gigi. The enormity of the loss is to be felt for a long
time.
Gigi
and Sally left this world on Friday, June 25, 2004,
leaving literally hundreds of grief-stricken family
members, friends, colleagues, neighbors, acquaintances,
and loving pets. Words are insufficient to describe
the profound sense of loss. Their love lives on, however,
in their individual legacies of love, friendship, caring
and compassion that they showed to everyone. Acknowledging
this gives me great comfort.
What
I want to accomplish with the 2 BigHearts Foundation
by telling the poignant story of Gigi and Sally is to
spread the word about heart disease in women - and to
stress that a similarly tragic scenario is
avoidable with proper heart health education. It was
determined that both Gigi and Sally suffered their cardiac
trauma as a direct result of cardiomyopathy, or an enlarged
heart muscle. Had we known about this condition, both
Gigi and Sally could have sought treatment that might
have saved their lives. As it turns out, cardiomyopathy
is a silent killer. And it is completely avoidable.
They experienced no prior symptoms, and were never diagnosed
with any heart problems.
With the 2 BigHearts
Foundation, my mission is to educate others regarding
the dangers of undiagnosed heart disease in women, work
with the health care community and partner with
organizations dedicated to research and education. What happened to Gigi
and to Sally should not ever happen to anyone. Life
is so precious, and if some level of understanding,
hope and inspiration comes from this Foundation, it
will be worth every second. And worthy of the memories
of Gigi and Sally.
Thank
you very much for your kindness, your understanding,
and for your generosity in keeping their unconditional
love, care and hope alive through the 2 BigHearts Foundation.
Jim
Clarke
September 9, 2004
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